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The Joy For Life Retreat - You Too Can Have This Experience!
Written by Anand WellsOur dear friend Jennie Murphy from Raw Pleasure has kindly allowed us to use her article/review about the Joy For Life Retreat - Thailand 2010.
The Joy For Life Retreat in Thailand, run by the Boutenko family along with their friend Tom Compton was one of the single best experiences of my life. It literally has changed my life and my way of thinking in such a positive way.
Every morning we were served massive trays of glorious fruits such as mangosteens, watermelon (tastes completely different in Thailand compared to Australia. Quality!), rambutans, jackfruit, mangoes, durian, dragon fruit, bananas, and so much more. We were also welcomed to the day with amuch green smoothie as we liked and each one was unique and delicious. Lunch time saw us with more fruit and a savoury smoothie as did dinner. At night we had a sweet green smoothie served as pudding.
The Joy For Life Retreat in Thailand, run by the Boutenko family along with their friend Tom was one of the single best experiences of my life. It literally has changed my life and my way of thinking in such a positive way.
Never has my appetite for food been so satisfied. Every night I went to bed feeling completely satiated! No nightly cravings, no dreaming of food. I was completely and utterly happy food wise.
After a single day I felt my energy returning even though I'd travelled a long way and was surrounded by people I didn't know. I'm extremely shy by nature and it's not the easiest thing for me to be in a group of strangers but everyone was talking to each other so it was easy to sit at the fringes of the conversations and join in a little. I didn't feel my normal worry at all and after a few days was comfortable with most of the people there.
Sessions with Tom were a little less easy to get used to. I've been to many many different kinds of therapy over the years and while some of these therapies have helped a little, nothing got right down to grass roots like Tom and Byron Katie's “The Work”. I had read a little about The Work before I left, arrogantly decided it was mumbo jumbo, a load of hog wash and that I definitely was not going to do it. I went to the first session, skipped the second and I was hooked in session 3. I can say, that hands down, The Work with Tom is the best emotional 'sorting out' or clearing that I have ever done. I can see why people grab it with both hands and just do it. I cleaned so much trash from my emotional body that by the end of the week I felt completely different. So much lighter and brighter... I even started a sing along on the bus on the last day which sounds cheesy but was really fun!
When I went to Thailand I was in a bad way. I had overworked myself to the point that I was making some serious mistakes, I couldn't keep up with life, I felt trapped, depressed, not at all creative. I was exhausted and making myself sick with my thoughts/emotions. I had no energy to exercise yet couldn't sleep and I found it very difficult to be positive about anything. I even tried to get Bill to take my place at the retreat so I wouldn't embarrass myself in front of a bunch of people I didn't know and also because I just didn't have the energy to interact with people. Even my closest family and friends had been neglected for months.
Going to The Joy For Life retreat was fantastic because it got me out of my comfort zone and away from my habitual routine which enabled me to embark on a new routine without any interference. If you are struggling with raw, or struggling to go to a lower fat style of raw eating then a retreat is the way to go in my opinion. It really does give you the chance to break those bad habits. By the time you get home, if you are like me, you will feel so great you will just want to continue doing what you were doing.
Joy For Life returned my peace of mind to me. Since I've come home my family and friends have noticed huge changes in the way I approach things. I'm much calmer, happier, more rational, less flighty and nervous. I feel like I've tamed myself. Not only that but I lost 7kg while on the retreat. I was all bloated when I left and couldn't fit into my favourite jeans comfortably. Now they are nearly falling off! Also my eyes have straightened out. I have a lazy eye that is slightly turned and it annoys the hell out of me, but my eyes are perfectly straight right now. My vision improved, my skin improved, my hair is faaabulous and my body feels right again.
The combination of the green smoothies and fruit clearing the body, along with The Work clearing out the mind, being surrounded with like minded people and having total support both during and after the retreat is mind blowing. It's so hard to put this into words for you, just how wonderful it is
On top of all of this we did a Salsa lesson with Sergei, there was early morning yoga with Briana, educational DVD's at night, a local Thai production which not too many of us understood but we realised that it was a comedy, glorious mountains all around, afternoon classes with the Boutenko's, laughter with new friends and more.
The Joy For Life retreat is incredibly under priced. That included the accommodation and food as well as travel from the hotel to the resort and back. It was worth a lot more than was charged that I can tell you. Victoria, Sergei and Valya all worked tirelessly to ensure that things moved as smoothly as possible and to help everyone settle and feel comfortable. Towards the end of the week when people realised the value of what Tom was teaching us he was booked solidly. He even had a booking on the bus from the retreat back to the hotel on the last day! That's dedication.
I've stayed in email contact with several people from the retreat and all are reporting the same experience, that they had an amazing time, learned a lot about themselves and are incorporating both the green smoothies and 'The Work' into their daily lives with great results. Phew! It's so great to know it's not just me!
I can't speak of this experience highly enough. Bill and I are trying to work things so that we can be at the next Joy For Life retreat together. Hopefully we will see some of you there and give you a hug and a smoothie :).
Credits: Thank you M.Kidd!
Note: I had a few people read over this for me to check for spelling mistakes etc and more than one asked if this article is a paid advertisement for The Boutenko's. It is not. I truly got soooo much from this experience that has helped me in every day life back at home it feels vitally important to share the experience with you. I'm sure that the Boutenko's and Tom Compton are grateful, but that is not the objective. If I hadn't enjoyed the retreat, and felt that it was one of the best things I'd ever done I would say nothing about it and move on. :)
The Boutenko's and Tom Comptom will be holding a Joy For Life Retreat in Australia for the first time over Easter (April 23rd -29th 2011) in an idyllic location in Northern NSW
You find out more here http://www.joyforliferetreat.com/
Growing old? It is never too late to reverse disease and aging
Written by Anand Wells

Knowing how to store your food is a very important factor in maximising its nutritional value. Any type of storage results in some deterioration. Produce bought from the store has already begun to lose vitamins, with nutrient losses increasing each day. Wilted produce contains far fewer nutrients than its fresh counterpart, especially Vitamin C content which is partial to rapid decay . While a certain amount of nutrient loss is inevitable, we can minimize it by purchasing the freshest possible produce and storing it under the following optimal conditions:
- Dry and place all leafy greens in airtight containers in the fridge to prevent loss of moisture and vitamins.
- Store cucumbers and eggplant in paper bags in the fridge crisper.
- Refrigerate carrots in bags or containers that allow for air circulation and to protect them against heat and light.
- Place tomatoes in a basket that allows the air to circulate. If you place them in the fridge they will lose their flavour.
- Don’t refrigerate any produce that continues to ripen after picking, for example bananas, avocados and stone fruit. These should be stored in a brown paper bag at room temperature until ripe.
- Store citrus fruits at room temperature for several days, alternatively store them in the fridge for up to two months.
- Apples should be refrigerated and it is best to store them away from any vegetables to prevent the vegetables from spoiling.
- Store your vegetables whole. Sliced vegetables exposes the flesh to air and light, which helps quickly break down the nutrients.
- Store root vegetables in a dark, cool place.

This week I've been looking at the idea 'I need to get back on track with my eating'. There are lots of tips out there for getting back on track – like drinking green juice, reviewing your goals, committing to exercise, locking the cupboard, or going to a health retreat. But when I was gearing up to 'get back on track' I started to question – 'What is this track that I think I have come off and is it acutally possible to get off track?'
My relationship with food cycles through periods of eating more and eating less. In my youth the cycles were more extreme as I moved through periods of binging and then dieting. Now my cycle moves through times where I eat light meals and exercise more, to times were I regularly eat high-fat foods and exercise less. No matter how hard I try to always stay in the 'good' zone the 'bad' zone always returns. No matter what strategies I employ to stay on track, I always get off track. No matter how many times I try to solve this problem, the problem returns. I have looked at this issue many times before and I'd either end up despondent or forever searching for a new way to solve the problem. But much to my delight this week I went somewhere new!
If the 'bad' always follows the 'good' could it also mean that the 'good' always follows the 'bad'? Could my cycle of eating be just like the yin-yang symbol with light food following heavy food and heavy food following light food? Can I actually just relax and trust my body to take care of itself without trying to control the process? Just as my eating goes into the 'bad' zone without my control, could my eating return to the 'good' zone without all this thinking and effort to get back on track? When I asked myself these questions I found the answer was a resounding and celebratory 'yes' - after every period of eating heavy foods my body naturally starts to crave lighter foods.
The more I look at my relationship to food, the more I find that it doesn't have much to do with food at all! Food is just a mirror of what is going on for me emotionally at the time. When I try to control what I am eating, I miss what food can show me, that inside me I am tensed, nervous, fearful, angry or sad. And until I have understood and brought the negative feelings to light, my struggle with food continues on. When I let my relationship with food just be, just watch it go up and down like the waves on the ocean, my emotional and mental terrain comes out of a mirky fog and sharply into focus. And when this happens, I have something that I can work with that can make a difference.
Shock! Another raw food teacher admits to eating cooked food
Written by Anand Wells
The headline for this blog post is tongue in cheek as you would realise if you have been to one of our classes. Transforming my relationship with food - memoirs from The Joy For Life Retreat from Runi
Written by Runi Burton
Anand and I recently returned from a trip to Thailand where we attending the Joy for Life Retreat. The retreat was hosted by the Boutenko Family (aka Raw Family) so it will be no surprise that we feasted on green smoothies, tropical fruit and greens for the entire week. Head chef for the retreat was Victoria Boutenko herself (author of Green For Life and Green Smoothie Revolution). Being the world’s pioneer in green smoothies means that Victoria is the collection point for the world’s best and exotic green smoothie blends. Tree-ripened tropical fruit such as mangosteens, mangoes, durians, bananas, papaya, longans, custard apples and rambutans are cheap and readily available in Thailand, as are a plethora of super-tasty Asian greens. With this abundance of food Anand was in heaven.
The retreat not only featured green smoothies but The Work of Byron Katie (which can be shortened to just ‘The Work’) led by our delightful facilitator, Tom Compton. The Work is a process of self enquiry where we look at our stressful thoughts and enquire into their truth. It is a simple, profound and often humorous process which can be done by anyone, anywhere, anytime. The Work presents an opportunity for the mind to open and for our stressful thoughts to fall away. The Work has proved to be very beneficial in the area of addiction. Byron Katie, the originator of The Work says it is not food, or drugs, or alcohol, or work that we are addicted to but to stressful thoughts and if we deal with our stressful thoughts our addictions just naturally take care of themselves. For some time I have noticed the relationship between stress and my eating habits. Whenever I was stressed and overworked I would snack between meals, but when I would relax and be at peace my eating habits would just fall into a natural easy rhythm. During the retreat, I had the opportunity to ‘do the work’ on many stressful beliefs and saw how readily I enter into a stressful state in order to get things done. The Work led me into a profound state of peace, a beautiful effortless space where the stressful thoughts that arose in my mind kept dropping away and love, awe and gratitude took their place.
Since returning to Australia, I have continued to do The Work on stressful thoughts arising throughout the day. Many negative feelings that I thought I just had to put up with have transformed through The Work into beautiful expanded states of being. I am surprised at how accessible peace is on a day-to-day basis, particularly in the midst of running a busy business. One of my most exciting experiences was when I becoming stressed about speaking to our team about being late for work and was concerned that I was making a big deal about nothing. I had started to gobble a few handfuls of nuts and was convinced that I was snacking because I was hungry and that I was too stressed to be able to deal with being hungry and the situation at hand. Anand suggest that I do The Work. I uncovered a strong yet vulnerable state where I was able to deal with the situation with the team with humour and friendship. But what surprised me the most was that the feeling that I had been calling hunger disappeared and all cravings for nuts vanished. I am also enjoying being in my body and enjoying feeling not so full. I seem to be looking to The Work to deal with my feelings rather than pleasure in food. A huge relief is that I am able to trust my natural appetite to guide my choices rather than trying to control my intake of food. I have the wonderful experience of doing The Work on my stressful thoughts and watching in wonder and surprise as my relationship with food is beautifully taking care of itself.
I think it was quite ingenius of Victoria to combine Green Smoothie Fasting/Feasting and The Work of Byron Katie in the Joy for Life Retreat. Both are profoundly healing in their own right and when combined make the process of healing easy and fun. Both are incredibly simple and easy to make into a regular habits. And both give us quick access to a profound state of delight and joy. The Joy For Life retreat will be coming to Australia towards the end of 2010. We will let you know how you can book into the Joy For Life retreat in following newsletters. You can find out more about Green Smoothies at www.greensmoothiechallenge.com and www.rawfamily.com and more about The Work of Byron Katie at www.thework.com.


